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‘Men are scared off when they learn I still have my Virginity intact ‘: 35-year-old virgin opens up about her struggle to find ‘the one’ – admitting guys often GHOST HER when she tells them she’s waiting for marriage

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A 35-year-old virgin has opened up about her struggle to find ‘the one’ – admitting that men often ghost her when she tells them she wants to stay a virgin until marriage. Sonali Chandra (pictured), an Indian-American dancer, model, and comedian from New Jersey, says she believes sleeping together is a ‘sacred and special’ act, so she’s waiting until she has a ring on her finger to participate in it.

However, her abstinence has made it hard for her to date, since she revealed most of her potential suitors have run the other way after they found out that she was a virgin. The dancer told Daily Star during a recent interview that almost every guy she has gone out with turned into a ‘jerk’ when she shared the news she’s a virgin.

‘I have only dated nine men – including three serious relationships – and all nine were jerks when they found out about my virginity,’ she said. As a child (pictured), Sonali said she grew up in a super-strict household. Her parents, both from India, didn’t allow her to have any sleepovers – and dating was strictly off the table.

She wasn’t even allowed to go to prom, and when it came time for college, she was told she couldn’t live in a dorm. ‘My strict upbringing absolutely has had a profound impact on my dating life. I was not allowed to socialize and dating was a big no-no,’ she explained. ‘Dating is a life skill, and I was forbidden from developing that skill in my teenage and college years.’

Sonali’s love life was practically non-existent until her 20s – she had her first kiss at age 26 – and now, fast forward to present day, at age 35, she admitted that she still ‘has no clue how to date.’ She said she has also struggled with letting new people in due to her fears of meeting ‘a predator’ – which she believes stems from her sheltered childhood. The 35-year-old admitted that she often feels ‘lonely,’ and has to ‘numb her emotional pain’ by staying busy.

‘I spend every weeknight exercising so I don’t feel lonely and I spend Saturday and Sunday nights alone in my studio apartment, which is very depressing,’ she said. ‘I go to sleep by 8pm to numb my emotional pain.’ In a desperate attempt to find her future-husband, Sonali went on the Lifetime dating show Five Guys A Week recently; but unfortunately, she didn’t form a strong connection with any of the guys.

‘In this provocative new social experiment, one adventurous single woman invites five eligible bachelors to move in with her for a week to see who is “The One,”’ a description of the show reads. ‘While living in cramped quarters, sharing a bathroom, and dividing up the housework, these men will need to be on their best behavior or miss out on the possibility of true love.’ While it didn’t work out in the end, Sonali stilled called the experience ‘surreal, fun, and relaxing.’

‘Since conventional dating methods haven’t worked for me as men get scared off when they learn I still have my V-card … I was seeking a new strategy to find love, hence why I joined Five Guys A Week,’ she explained. ‘Being on the show was a surreal experience – I had never done anything like that before. It was very fun and relaxing to just enjoy the experience of finding love.’

Back in 2020, the model went on Dr. Phil (pictured) to discuss her dating struggles, and she explained that her parents wanted her to agree to an arranged marriage after college, but she was ‘shocked and disgusted’ by the idea. ‘I would rather remain a virgin and be single the rest of my life than be married to the wrong guy,’ she said.

She also told the talk show host that she couldn’t understand why men kept leaving her. ‘I’m confused and perplexed. I have all these great qualities. Why is it so tough for me to find the one who won’t be scared off when I tell him he would be my first and hopefully only?’ she asked.

Despite her bad luck so far, Sonali is still hopeful that she’ll find her soulmate, and has no plans to give up any time soon. ‘I am looking for a chivalrous gentleman who is moral and ethical, handsome, ambitious, health-oriented, and will treat me like a Queen,’ she dished to Daily Star. ‘I want what Priyanka Chopra has with Nick Jonas.’

She recently connected with someone who sent her a supportive message after her Dr. Phil appearance, but she isn’t sure if their romance will last since they live in different states. ‘This man is handsome, ambitious, and a bit older than me – I am so surprised he is still single,’ she said. ‘He has an incredibly calm demeanor, which balances my vivacious personality. I feel like I have known him for eternity, and I feel comfortable around him.’

The couple grew close through texting and video chatting, but were able to meet in person one time. ‘He was slightly flirtatious but was completely respectful of my boundaries given that I’m a virgin. He didn’t even try to kiss me,’ she recalled of their meetup. ‘Since our meeting, I have not been able to stop thinking about him. However, I have no clue what he thinks of me or when I’ll meet him again, which is heart-wrenching. I do believe that friendship is the foundation of any relationship and that time will tell what happens between us. I know for a fact that my parents would love him.’

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“Firmly in my child-free era” – 30 year old lady gets her fallopian tubes tied (video)

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A 30-year-old lady has stirred reactions online after undergoing surgery to tie her fallopian tube.

The woman said in a social media video that she got the procedure because she didn’t want to become pregnant and deal with the physical and emotional scars that would result.

She wrote;

“Finally got my tubes tied!!!
Firmly in my childfree era. So proud of myself of taking control of my life and eliminating pregnancy scares and @borshun from my future🎀”

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In other news, Popular Nollywood actress, Sandra Okunzuwa, shared a painful experience that made her despise men for a long time.

In a recent interview with The Sun, the screen diva discussed her traumatic experiences with men and how she overcame the trauma.

She said the experience made her hate men for a while, but she has now healed and moved on.

“Sexually abused as a kid? Yes. Mental health victim? Yes. In the society we live in, people don’t talk about mental health issues; they expect you to visit your pastor and you will be alright. As an actor, it is not easy. First, you will have to embody the life of different characters and personalities, the good, the bad and the terrible.

Despite what you are going through personally, you have to wear a smile and keep entertaining people because that is what people expect from you. I think there should be a special therapist for entertainers, because it is not easy. Giving out joy to people and lacking where to fill up from. Most people are broken; they’re carrying about baggage from the past, if you don’t talk about it so you can get help, you will keep carrying it about until it destroys you. By sharing your problems with your partner, you can get help.

Lastly, being traumatized isn’t a spiritual issue; it is a mental issue that needs a therapist. I will get married to my perfect partner someday. Before, it (the sexual abuse) kind of made me resent men, but I have healed from it and moved on. I am a lot better now.” She said.

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“We can’t normalize fornication and then demonize adultery. Most fornicators are adulterers in training” – Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaches

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“We can’t normalize fornication and then demonize adultery. Most fornicators are adulterers in training” – Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaches – YabaLeftOnline

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“Shanty Town is a glorified Asaba movie” – Actor, Uche Maduagwu criticizes his colleagues for new Netflix series

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Controversial Nollywood actor, Uche Maduagwu, has criticized his colleagues, Nancy Isime and Peter Okoye for their roles in the trending Netflix series, Shantytown.

Taking to his Instagram account he shared a video querying the need for Nancy Isime’s nudity and why Peter Okoye, a singer was given a movie role.

According to him, the entire production of the movie was sub par and not worth the hype.

In his words;

“So after all the Hype on Shanty Town, I finally sat down to #watch and I was so confused, it was a glorified ASABA movie, the story line was so uninteresting and a little bit more like our regular ASABA movie, only difference was it super high quality cinematography and advanced better production.
When exactly did Peter of PSQUARE turn Actor? Nancy showing unnecessary body is more confusing, Walahi some #Yoruba movies have better story line than this, Na all Hype, and this is why E go TEY before Nollywood go smell OSCAR #Awards because we not ready to be extraordinary in our story telling, imagine in 2023, we are bringing out this?


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